You are of great value than you thought.

The pursuit of my personal growth, the field i passionately adore, i have come to realize why there is no any other person like,like you or anybody else. all of us are wonderfuly and fearfully made. The uniqueness of each personality brings a great diversity in loving relationships. i normally tell my wife that you so good to me and i delight being with you,the same with my son every morning before he leaves to go to school i just look at him and say i have never seen anyone like you and i dont think i will ever see again. you were created to fulfill a purpose and no one else can do it except you. go out and fulfill it.

I can imagine the joy that God had when he created you and me and said we populate the earth. furthermore He made us multidimensional much like Himself, great joy, high inteliigence,the power to think,to imagine,to creatively experiment infact to go in any direction our mind could devise.

The gift God values most would be ours that is total freedom of choice, what excitement do we have of completeness. Each one of us can exult in the ability to direct himself or herself to be equal to any challenge. we can run with speed and power,to move gracefully and with discipline and also to sit quietly in contemplation of the surrounding.

In the light to which God surrounded us with we can perceive the truth and recognize the great plans to which God had for us. you and me we can continue discovering it and we attain anything we ever thought of but we must recognize that we are wonderful and start to grow and develop and then we shall wonder at the possibilities for intellictual understanding and pursuits that is open for us.

let no one despise you,dont lower yourself, listen to your intuition and follow, you are the only obstacle to achieveing great things in life. this is my personal mission on earth. to pursue personal development and discover great and unsearchable things that am capable of doing but have not realized. am encouraging you too to pursue if you are willing. print this article and share with your relatives,friends and whomever you are in contact. because we want to have a better experience and serve one anothe to the highest good of all. what do you think. am dedicating myself to discovering profound truths and if you are willing you can partner with me in prayers or send a donation. the pay pal payment sign is below here.

success is a learnable skill and you can learn to succeed at anything

author and speaker Jim Rohn says that ” if you keep doing what you have always done, you will keep getting what you have always got.” and the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. look,if what you have been doing were working you will be happy now.
physicists tell us that nothing in this world is static,everything alive is constantly changing. and if you are not growing then you are dying. the only way to master something is keep on doing it. if you notice my passion is to keep on developing and help others to develop too and that is why everyday i feel that i must post an article for me to read and share with others also.read in
your success
i understand that success is a learn able skill. i can learn to succeed at anything. if i want to be a great pianist i can,if i want to be a great golfer,i can learn on how to do it. and if you want to be happy,you can learn how to do it. even if you want to be rich ,you can learn how to do it. it doesn’t matter where you are right now. it doesn’t matter who are right now. it doesn’t matter where you are starting from, right now. what matters is that you are willing to learn.
remember that every master was insignificant one time. No one comes out of the womb a great golfer,a great financial guru, a great pianist, a great economist. every person learned how to succeed. for example Bill gates learned how to create a great company in the world(Microsoft), Warren Buffet learned how to be a great investor, Tiger woods learned how to be a great golfer and so on.read in
The true meaning of wealth
the fastest way to master a skill is to work on yourself into a “successful” person. again your outer world is a reflection of the inner world. you are the root and your results are the fruits. also remember that the goal of mastering is skill is not to be admired or have a lot money but is to grow and become the best person you can possibly be. the world renowned singer Madonna was asked why she kept on changing her persona,her music and her style every year. she responded that her music was her way to express her “self” and that reinventing herself each year forces her to grow into the kind of person she wants to be.
therefore success is not “what” it is all about “who”. the goodness is that the “who” is trainable and learn able. i welcome you the personal growth,because it is the only way we can express who we are and be able to unleash the powers within us and share the talents an gift we have with the rest of the people. if you have been touched leave a donation below,any amount is welcomed, it is one way of keeping connecting and having the feeling good of serving. donate now.

The true meaning of wealth

yesterday i wrote an article about the true meaning of success,many people wrote to me telling me how the articles touched them and some people asked if i can write again maybe talk about the true measure of wealth. some one wrote an interesting email and asked me how much do you make?, then i thought why couldn’t he ask me ” what is your net worth?”. i know very few people will ask such kind of a question.

Then,as seen from above what is the true measure of wealth, is it the income pay you get every week/month/year or is it the net worth of the financial value of everything you own. what do you think?. people who value pay check will measure wealth in terms of the much they can earn and therefore will admire someone who is pay check reads $30million a month and to satisfy the ego they choose immediate gratification, you have a car,you make more money and you get a better car. you have a house,you make more money and you get a bigger house. you have clothes,you make more money and you get nicer clothes. you have holidays,you make more money and you spend more on holidays. of course there are exceptions to this rule….very few. in general as income goes up,expenses almost invariably goes up and that is why income alone will not make you wealth.

But once you understand that your net worth is the ultimate measure of wealth whereby you can easily turn your assets into cash i.e the bonds,real estate,the current value of your business,the value of the residence you are staying on if own it and then subtract everything you owe.
how to build the net worth

building a net worth is a situation whereby you take a blank sheet of paper and title it “Net worth”. then you start by creating a simple chart that begins with Zero and ends with whatever your net worth objective will be. remember that your current net worth is as it is today. then update it quarterly. like now when i learn about this, i started with nothing and doubling every quarter meaning i divided the net worth into four areas: my regular income,savings,investments and simplifications.

working income is the money i earned from active work. and in this case my wife was the one who is working and therefore we count the money there and also i had passive income from our current training business which gives us a profit at the end of the month. let us not forget that working income is very important because it can address the other three areas for example the more income you earn the more you can be able to save and invest. unfortunately many people put their focus on the working income out of the four other areas mentioned above. consequently they end up with a low net worth or none.
many of us earn but don’t keep any of it. without creating income to fill the funnel and savings to keep it there it is impossible to make an investment. but once you begin a decent savings from your income,then you can make your money grow through investment. and the better you are at investing the faster you can make your money grow and generate a better net worth this will make you realise how important your net worth is and therefore decrease your living expenses as you increase your savings and make more investments. this is what we call simplification. this is why you read of rich people driving old cars,some living in apartments and so on .
by tracking your net worth,you are focusing on it,and because what you focus on expands,your net worth will expand” where attention goes,energy flows”.

The true meaning of success

what is the meaning of success to you, in a scale of 1 to 10, how can you rate yourself in terms of success as per see. some people will find having more money in the bank account is being rich and other assets which are tangible while other will find having the inner things like peace,harmony,integrity,security and happiness being rich. what about you. in my opinion the true meaning of success is to be successful at the enterprise of living.
how do we find this success
step 1. the first step is to find what you love to do,then do it. unless you love your work,you cannot possibly consider yourself successful at it,even if all the rest of the world hails you as a great success. to love your work means having the deep desire to carry it out.
step 2. is to specialize in some particular branch of work and strive to excel in it.for example if one chooses medicine meaning he will want to be a doctor,he should give attention to his chosen speciality. his enthusiasm should make him want to know all there is available about his chosen field. this is what prompted me to chose this field of personal development because all along i have been wanting to develop as person and also help others develop too. it is an are to be that i always think about all the time,talk about it,in fact am into it that there is no any other field i can feel comfortable working and now what about you. read also adding value to others
step 3. you must be sure the thing you want to do does not contribute only to your success. it must benefit humanity. in other words your idea must go forth with the purpose of blessing or serving the world. and if you work only to benefit yourself you are in the wrong field. think about it today and if you find it don’t forget to send me a donation through pay pal. the sign is below here

The happiest person is the one who constantly brings forth and practises what is best in himself or herself.

are fear or worry holding you back? let is remember that fear s just a thought in the mind. why do i let it to put me down, many of the times i only imagine the situation before it even happens. for example are you having a relationship but feel that you partner might be cheating you or are you married and feel that your spouse is being unfaithful to you. i want to tell you today that you are 100% correct and nobody should condemn you,why do i support you many people will start dismissing me now but come on let us continue. in fact by you dismissing me you are also right and am also right. so what is the issue now. the issue is that can the answer i have be helpful to me and to those people around me. am i having peace and happiness and if not then what am thinking is not correct when it is observed from outside and this is the one blocking me from achieving happiness in my life.
the happiest person is the one who constantly brings forth and practises what is best in himself or herself. happiness and virtue compliment each other. not only are the best the happiest, but the happiest are usually the best in the art of living life successfully. for example i know of a lady who shared with me on how she taught her man was cheating her and constantly she taught about it. this came about after she listened to a conversation in the office from the fellow workmates who taught that men cheat and they also confirmed that they had evidence,so she also started following up the man to see whether he was cheating her, and you know she attracted everything by having only a thought and you know what, when we shared i told her that she should face the man and get the honest answer before she would think about anything. afterwards she came and shared and told me that there was nothing everything was only fear in the mind.
there is one important thing to remember about being happy. we must sincerely desire to be happy. there are people who have been depressed,dejected, and unhappy so long that they suddenly made happy by some wonderful good,joyous news. many people choose unhappiness without realizing that they are doing so. they do so by entertaining such ideas as these:
today is a black day,everything is going to go wrong
i am not going to succeed
everyone is against me
i m always late
i never get the breaks
he can, but i cant
if you have this attitude of mind the first thing in the morning,you will attract these experiences to you and you will be very unhappy. begin to realize that the world you live in is determined by what goes on in your mind. the thou hgt you habitually entertain in your mind have a tendency to actualize themselves in physical conditions. Ralpho Waldo Emerson said ” a man is what he thinks all the day long” remember you experience nothing outside your own mentality.

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what is the cause of breakups in relationship? is it the money itself or the belief about money.

Are you in a marriage where your spouse is not ready to discuss with you openly about money? do you fight regularly because of money? or are you intending to breakup because of money? you are not alone. it is happening everywhere. allow me to discuss with you what saved my marriage and how come i discovered it.The biggest reason behind the fights people have about money.
it doesn’t matter how much money you have or don’t have. the bottom line is that, there is a root which is very fundamental about money. each of you grew differently and have different fundamental belief towards money which you sacredly inherited from you parents or those people who brought you up . and this will have a great impact on both of you,because you will like your spouse to adopt your beliefs too and also would like you to to adopt his or her beliefs towards money. this goes to married people,dating couples,family relationship and even business associates. this key here is to recognize that you are dealing with inherited beliefs about money.
rather than feeling bad why this are not working the way you wanted them. you can start by recognizing that your partner’s belief about money is not the same as yours. instead of getting upset,choose understanding. do your best to find out what is important to your partner in the area of money an identify his or her motivations and fears. doing this way you will be dealing with the the root instead of the fruits and are on you way working towards having a smooth relationship
steps towards changing. personal experience
This is what i did after i found out that what i was dealing was not the cause towards money . i openly asked my wife if we can discuss the history of each other, of what we heard about money when we were you, what was the reactions towards money in each other’s family and what it really means right now now to each other.
from there we created a list of these attitudes with regard to money and success. then we appreciated each other how we grew up and agreed that the modeling had many flaws which is making our relationship crumpling down. we now agreed as partners to create a new list of attitudes and the actions we shall both live by. we wrote it down,we didn’t type but used our own handwriting and posted in our bedroom to read every morning and evening and wherever we drift away from them we would remind each other of our commitments and i have seen it working well. now we saved our marriage.am not saying this what you need to do, but if you see it can work practise it,there are several ways in which you can go about to change your fundamental beliefs and even some your taught by your religion. what we are discussing here is not what is ideal,but what can work for both of you and empower you to live in harmony with each other rather than putting yourselves down,you are there for one another. what do you think?

many of us grew up with an element of punishment in us. whereby if you did something wrong you deserved to be punished

no individual has sufficient experience,education,native ability and knowledge to insure the accumulation of great fortune,without accepting himself or herself first. because when you accept yourself means you have accepted total responsibility for what happened in your life in the past and what is happening currently in your life.
recognise that whether you are worthy or not is all a made-up story. again, nothing has a meaning except for meaning we give it. i don’t know about you, but i have never heard anybody who went through the “stamping” lineup at birth. can you imagine God stamping each person’s forehead as he or she came through? worthy…….unworthy……worthy……unworthy……..” i don’t think it works that because if you read psalms it says we are fearfully and wonderfully made and God has declared you worthy. there is no one who comes around and stamps you “worthy” or “unworthy”. you do that. you make it up. you decide it. you and you alone determine if are accepting to be worthy. it is simply your perspective. and you will live into your story.
people are challenged with the question why are they not worthy, financially stable, having a good relationship and i can guess that over 90 percent of the people have a feelings of not being good enough.
where does this low self-esteem come from? the usual – our conditioning. for most of us comes from hearing negative comments rather than positive one. even if our parents or guardians were incredibly supportive, most of us will end up feeling of not able to measure to the standard of expectation from them.
many of us grew up with an element of punishment in us. whereby if you did wrong you deserve to be punished we were punished by our parents,teachers and those who were older than us. and even certain religion punished us by threatening us if we do wrong with not going heaven. up to now the conditioning of punishment is ingrained in us even if there is not actual punishment when we make a mistake we punish ourselves in the mind(subconsciously). and it would be inform ” you are bad, so no money”. this explains why some people limit their earnings and why others will subconsciously sabotage their success. are you worthy or unworthy?

poverty is the state of mind and nothing else

There are millions of people who believe themselves“doomed” to poverty and failure around the world today. simply because some forces over which they believe they have control over. but without remembering that they are the creators of their own destiny. and because of their own negative belief ,which has affected their hard drive which is the subconscious mind and manifested in the physical world.
Rich people live in a world of abundance and poor people live in a world of limitations. of course both live in the same physical world, but the difference is in their perspective. the poor people come from scarcity. they live by motto’s such as ” there’s only so much to go around, there’s never enough and you cant have everything” and although you may not be able to have “everything” as in all the things in the world, i do think you can certainly have everything you really want.
Do you want a successful career or a close relationship with your family! Do you want to focus on business or have fun and play. poor people choose one but rich people have both. nothing brings man suffering and humility as poverty. only those who have experienced poverty understand the full meaning of this. poverty is the state of mind and nothing else

The more value you add to the world the more wealth and success you accumulate.

Napoleon Hil in his classic book, think and grow Rich has taught us on how to use the power of our minds to become more successful. But what will happen when you only focus on success albert Eisten once said that “try not to becme a man of success ; rather try to become a man of value”. So what does that mean exactly?

It means developing a strategy for your life that is based on increasing your value. It means moving from your current life to a different life where you can provide more value better than anyoe else. One of the major secret to success and wealth is the power of value and service. Therefore the more you serve the more you succeed. The more value you add to the world the more wealth and success you accumulate.

Fore example in the idea of service. Your level of succes depends on how many people you can help either diectly or indirectly i.e if you help 500 people to become successful then you can measure your success by giving it a value of 500. and i you want to have more success, think how you can help more people.

Now instead of focusing on success,focus on specific,measurable activities that will increase your value to yourself and others. Using the intriscic value with time your value will yield great harvest.

Those precious hours just after we drift off to sleep is creative moments use it well

I was once told by someone that I should end each day by crossing it off my calendar and saying out loud, “There goes another day of my life, never to return again.” But why many of us love ending the day with watching news that are full of murder, war and mayhem of all kinds and we call it news and what happens is the we end the day feeling of regrets or loss, so instead of being grateful and enter to the most creative hour with a positive note we end it badly. Let us remember that there is a time when we are at our most creative, productive and powerful. A time when we have complete access to all of our resources and can solve virtually any problem. A time when the great inventors of our time talk about having had their “ ah ha” moments and where many our most pressing problems have been solved.

It is that time in our lives when we have total access to our power and can tap in the source of “all that is” for help with anything in our lives. Those precious hours just after we drift off to sleep. These are some of the most creative time we have available to us. Unfortunately ,most people prepare themselves up for entering this time by watching late hour news just before going to bed. Am not against the news but against watching news before going to bed.

This is the absolute worst thing you can do. Think about the images that you are taking with you into your dream state. It is no wonderful so many people are unhappy and depressed. Instead if you really must watch the news why cant you then record and watch them the following day. Some will say that it would have ceased to be news. Let it cease but grow.

When you substitute positive, uplifting ideas in place of negative ones you will provide the subconscious mind thoughts, words and even pictures of the kind of life you want to live. One time a gave it a trial by taping all my favorite shows and saved them for 21 days and i want to share with you that after 21 days it was very enlightening. The point again is that you don’t need to continue any of the above beyond 21 days. Think of the benefits you’ll gain from those 21 days alone. You can re-asses after the trial period. You’re certain to grow just from the experience, even if it’s temporary.

The power of the above approach is its simplicity. This is because you will allow yourself to look at more important thing in your life and hence create positive images in your subconscious mind which will have a dramatic effect on your creativity and outcomes. Don’t be surprised if you start waking up with new, empowering ideas that will propel you toward even greater success. I ‘d be surprised if you do not.

These images will provide your subconscious mind with a clear picture of what you want. Since your subconscious acts on whatever commands you give it, by virtue of the laws of the universe. It will begin bringing it towards you.