When you deny your problems, you turn away from truth

September 21, 2008

Life has no other discipline to impose,if we would butrealize it, than to accept life unequestioningly. Everything we shut our eyes to, everything we run away from,everything we deny,denigrate or despise,serves to defeat us in the end. What seeems nasty, painful ,eveil,can become a source of beauty,joy and strenght, if faced wth an open mind. Every moment is a golden one for him who has th vision to recognize it at such.- henry miller

Yes, we all struggle,day in day out. However,some people simply manage the challenges better than others and are thereby able to expend their energies on winning rather than merely enduring the undetected. Scud missiles that come out of nowhere,that is threating their well plans. Although all of us face these trials, it seems that some people have advantage over others.

We may not see the sweet harvest coming after the bitter planting. The only certain about life is that it will change if we keep on. So many of life’s hardship derive their power from the unexpected timing of the punch that catches us off guard. For you to create a life of your choosing. It is not for me to say what that life should look like, but i’ll do my best to help you figure it out.

No matter how faith-filled ,how financialy responsible, how politically correct you are,or how congenial you may be with others,you will find yourself from time to time facing times that threatens and leaves us with alot of problems and that is when you must ask yourself whether you accept the problem or deny it.

When you deny your problems, you turn away from truth. The lies you tell yourself spawn more lies,infecting your mind with falsehood that weave themselves into your identity. You become disconected from your true self, living as a mere shadow of the being you were meant to be.


Can you enjoy your work and make money too?

September 21, 2008


Not all of us have money to set up a business or the luck, or the chances aren’t there. Sometimes, you are glad to have a job-any job. So you grab the job in the factory or the store. You might not love the job but you comfort yourself that anyway a job is a job and you can make things work best for you.

But the question is do you need to get stuck in a rut? Is your current job the only option? At least if you look beyond yourself. There are many options. Just look around what else you can do and start doing it.

You might ask, how do i know that what i enjoy doing will lead to money? The best answer will be to give it a trial and judge it yourself. I don’t want to give myself as an example because you have never met me and nor heard me but look around you there are lots of examples of individual whom worked on the work they enjoy and got the really money they wanted.

I’ve met quite a number of people who are enjoying what they are doing ,but have never heard any of them say that doing what they love is a burden to them. We spend so much of our lives working to make a living that doing something we loathe seems pointless. I believe in balance, what Buddhists call harmony. On the whole i have been very lucky maintaining this balance. That is enjoy your work and make money too.

If you still have to work for a boss at a job you don’t like, as most almost everyone does at some point in life. Just have a positive outlook on life and just get on with it. Enjoy the people, you come into contact with though your job and if you are still unhappy, make it instead our goal to divide your private life from work life. Have fun in your own time, consider that your boss or your company is paying for your fun and you will feel happier and enjoy your life and your job more. Mhhhhhh what is your opinion