what is the meaning of success to you, in a scale of 1 to 10, how can you rate yourself in terms of success as per see. some people will find having more money in the bank account is being rich and other assets which are tangible while other will find having the inner things like peace,harmony,integrity,security and happiness being rich. what about you. in my opinion the true meaning of success is to be successful at the enterprise of living.
how do we find this success
step 1. the first step is to find what you love to do,then do it. unless you love your work,you cannot possibly consider yourself successful at it,even if all the rest of the world hails you as a great success. to love your work means having the deep desire to carry it out.
step 2. is to specialize in some particular branch of work and strive to excel in it.for example if one chooses medicine meaning he will want to be a doctor,he should give attention to his chosen speciality. his enthusiasm should make him want to know all there is available about his chosen field. this is what prompted me to chose this field of personal development because all along i have been wanting to develop as person and also help others develop too. it is an are to be that i always think about all the time,talk about it,in fact am into it that there is no any other field i can feel comfortable working and now what about you. read also adding value to others
step 3. you must be sure the thing you want to do does not contribute only to your success. it must benefit humanity. in other words your idea must go forth with the purpose of blessing or serving the world. and if you work only to benefit yourself you are in the wrong field. think about it today and if you find it don’t forget to send me a donation through pay pal. the sign is below here
The true meaning of success
September 28, 2008The happiest person is the one who constantly brings forth and practises what is best in himself or herself.
September 28, 2008are fear or worry holding you back? let is remember that fear s just a thought in the mind. why do i let it to put me down, many of the times i only imagine the situation before it even happens. for example are you having a relationship but feel that you partner might be cheating you or are you married and feel that your spouse is being unfaithful to you. i want to tell you today that you are 100% correct and nobody should condemn you,why do i support you many people will start dismissing me now but come on let us continue. in fact by you dismissing me you are also right and am also right. so what is the issue now. the issue is that can the answer i have be helpful to me and to those people around me. am i having peace and happiness and if not then what am thinking is not correct when it is observed from outside and this is the one blocking me from achieving happiness in my life.
the happiest person is the one who constantly brings forth and practises what is best in himself or herself. happiness and virtue compliment each other. not only are the best the happiest, but the happiest are usually the best in the art of living life successfully. for example i know of a lady who shared with me on how she taught her man was cheating her and constantly she taught about it. this came about after she listened to a conversation in the office from the fellow workmates who taught that men cheat and they also confirmed that they had evidence,so she also started following up the man to see whether he was cheating her, and you know she attracted everything by having only a thought and you know what, when we shared i told her that she should face the man and get the honest answer before she would think about anything. afterwards she came and shared and told me that there was nothing everything was only fear in the mind.
there is one important thing to remember about being happy. we must sincerely desire to be happy. there are people who have been depressed,dejected, and unhappy so long that they suddenly made happy by some wonderful good,joyous news. many people choose unhappiness without realizing that they are doing so. they do so by entertaining such ideas as these:
today is a black day,everything is going to go wrong
i am not going to succeed
everyone is against me
i m always late
i never get the breaks
he can, but i cant
if you have this attitude of mind the first thing in the morning,you will attract these experiences to you and you will be very unhappy. begin to realize that the world you live in is determined by what goes on in your mind. the thou hgt you habitually entertain in your mind have a tendency to actualize themselves in physical conditions. Ralpho Waldo Emerson said ” a man is what he thinks all the day long” remember you experience nothing outside your own mentality.
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